We all need each other.

There has been so much coverage about the Ebola outbreak that I doubt one more blog post will provide any additional clarity or answers, but I think this needs to be said.

We all need each other.

Just this week, we’ve read stories about two nurses who have come down with the virus, and the outcry from many has been everything from the lack of protocol that was followed, or how they did not take necessary precautions, etc. And while I think we all agree that processes need to be in place to ensure that everyone is protected from a pandemic, we have a tendency to rush to judgement and forget that we are talking about people.

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NEWS FLASH: We are not infallible, we are human. It’s because of this very fact that we need each other. This is true in every aspect of life. Sports teams don’t win without teammates, businesses don’t deliver without coworkers and communities don’t stay healthy without healthcare workers.

For what it’s worth, I wanted to take a moment for us to consider a few ways we can talk about the issues that concern us in a manner that respects everyone involved.

• Public condemnation doesn’t solve problems. Solutions do. Listen. I get it. We all make mistakes, and some can be pretty colossal. But instead of resorting to public ridicule, we should offer solutions that will move us all forward. It’s easy to criticize from the sideline, it’s much harder to be in the game. We should be grateful our “I need a do-over” moments don’t end up as trending topics on Twitter for the entire world to see. We really need to see more of this;

• Remember The Golden Rule. Have we forgotten this little gem? “Treat others as you would like to be treated”. It’s such a simple and powerful reminder for how we should engage one another. Our rants are not likely to make the kind of impact that change political policy. We’ve all seen this friendly reminder;

• If we care, let’s say it. At the end of the day, we’re providing our commentary because we care. If we didn’t, we wouldn’t. Right? However, when we show that we “care”, the very word should invoke a sense of treating others with a certain concern or protection. Some would call that empathy. What does that look like? Exhibit A;

• Wrap your criticism. Some of the best critiques I ever experienced in college were the ones that included criticism wrapped in positive comments. It’s been referred to as the “feedback sandwich”. If we truly have something constructive to say, let’s wrap those pearls of wisdom with some positive, encouraging words. Trust me, if it’s authentic, it works.

• Realize we all have a heartbeat. Our lives are, and will continue to be, intertwined with people. We will continue to work with, play sports with and live life with…people. Let’s try extending grace to those we don’t understand, encourage those who’ve made mistakes and ultimately be the kind of culture that builds bridges instead of burning them.

What would it look like if we put these into practice? Let’s do it. Let’s see what happens. I guarantee you will see positive results. Did someone make a mistake? Encourage them. See a problem that needs fixed? Offer a solution. Have a critique? Wrap it with some TLC.

And to Nina Pham and Amber Vinson? You are the very nurses we should all want taking care of us. You think of others before yourself, exemplifying qualities that we should all be representing to each other everyday. We’re praying for your quick recovery.

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